In today’s time, the understanding of love and relationships is immensely influenced by media, movies, and peer pressure, which often creates an idealized picture of love. Old literature also plays an important role in shaping this perception. Romantic movies and literature like “Romeo and Juliet” are perfect examples of this so-called “perfect” love. They depict and even promote concepts like love at first sight, grand gestures of love, and happily ever after.
This depiction of love is not real and it creates highly unrealistic hopes and expectations which can lead to misunderstandings and problems between couples. It is important to understand that real love does not require unrealistic sacrifices and grand gestures. Jealousy and possessiveness are not a sign of love and passion; a person shouldn’t have to make sacrifices for their happiness to prove their love, and there is no flawless relationship or person. A relationship, no matter how compatible you are with your partner, would still have some problems and misunderstandings and they are even an important part of growth and healthy relationships.
There are many other things which are romanticised as signs of love in relationships but, in reality, they may create problems and affect your relationship over time. Here are some things you immediately need to stop romanticising in love: